serekth said:
Sleboda comes off as rude or condescending way too frequently these days for me to still think that it's unintentional or that he wasn't tying to be. If you're constantly saying that you're not trying to come of as rude or condescending but consistently other people see that you are then doesn't that make you naturally rude and condescending?
=> Fair enough. At least I take the time to try to make my actual intentions clear in posts. It's waaaaay too common for people to just blast words onto a screen without realizing that they may be taken in a way other than intended. I try to identify times when what I say may be misread and endeavor to clarify intent. Better to not leave it open to interpretation, I would think.
Which leads me to why I responded as I did.
Read this line:
3) Not that you asked, but the SCGT is the biggest Warhammer tournament in the world. 185ish players this year.
Now "hear" it as part of a live conversation. Think back to the times you've head, literally heard, someone say "not that you asked." Have you
ever heard that said in an open, honest, and helpful tone? I haven't. It's always (in my experience) a precursor to some sort of snide or 'cute' comment meant to take a pot shot at what is being responded to. I literally have never, ever, heard it used in any other way.
So, I made the assumption that the poster was assuming I was trying to make an anti-comp statement (something for which I am well known and take a decent amount of heat over) and that he was propping up the comped event with statistics to pre-emtively shut down my line of reasoning (that I had not stated but that I assumed he was assuming I was following).
If that was NOT his intent, then I truly apologize to him...but gosh, look what happens when we DON'T take the time to address the words we choose with some sort of "I don't mean it poorly" (as I often do, and as you have pointed out is somehow a bad thing to do).
Gotta love it when pot shots are defended and clarity in tone is derided.
Awesome.
Yes, that was sarcasm.
For the record, and to be clear, I really did just want to know if there were rules changes in place so that the lists and success could be given context. If it had turned out to be non-comped, I would want to investigate further to, oh, I dunno, maybe learn to be a better player from more successful generals.
Finding out that Lizards got hosed by the comp (after my initial post and reply) also means I don't need to check into it, as the rules - benefiting or crushing to lizards - are not the standard game and thus lessons do not apply to that standard.