Straight pride is usually organized as a rebuttal to LGBTQ pride as well as celebrating their perceived superiority of their sexuality,
That is putting words in people's mouths and thoughts in their heads. Just because I have an apple does mean that you have to lose an orange.
That's why I became a supporter for gay marriage before it was a mainstream view because I realized that same sex marriage did not actually make it harder for me to have a hetero marriage.
I am amazed at how fast LGBT rights advanced compared to the 100+ years it took for the Black Civil Rights movement to pick up steam after the American Civil War.
whereas the latter is often a call for equality for marginalized groups of people.
I am against discrimination of the LGBT community. I make sure to not say anything insensitive and I be polite and friendly with LGBT just as I would anyone else. I also attended one rally for legalizing gay marriage in my state many years ago. I don't know what else to do. I do not know many LGBT people.
But what is "equality"? I honestly don't know. It means something different to every person I talk to.
You can pass a law making it illegal to discriminate someone for an employment opportunity on the basis of sexual orientation but you cannot pass a law declaring two groups of people equal because you cannot measure it.
Equality is vague and hard to measure and there many ways to be equal. Could you describe a world to me where every sexual orientation is equal? Describe a hypothetical world where victory can be declared.
Equality for straights and LGBT people could mean that half of all characters in all media are non-cis or it could mean that character in all the media proportionally represent what they have in real life so if 5% of the population is non-cis than 5% of fictional characters should be non-cis.
Equality could just mean that you pay CIS and straight actors the same, but no one worries about proportions or quotas.
There is proposed legislation in California that publicly traded companies need a minimum number of underrepresented groups included in their board of directors. Including a black person OR an LGBT person. Is it appropriate to view black people and LGBT as interchangeable? That seems to diminish both groups.
One issue with quota systems it casts shade on the disenfranchised groups. If a member of disenfranchised group is on the board with no special quota system, people assume they made it there on merit. If there is a quota system, even qualified minorities will be disrespected because there is often an unspoken assumption that that person is a token hire.
Is it equality that there are laws on the books that promote the interest of LGBT above cis gendered in certain circumstances? Is it equal that there are far more specific scholarships for LGBT students than straight students?
Is it equal that a same sex married couple automatically assumes 50/50 custody for children and child support as the baseline but hetero couples have a giant bias towards the mother getting custody?
On Monday, I am not equal to myself on Tuesday. If I cannot be equal to myself, I cannot be equal to another person.
Two people can be equal under the law. But if there are laws to make it easier for person A to be hired than person B, then these people are not equal under the law. Person A is legally superior to Person B.
Marrying or having relations with a person of a other sex isn't illegal anywhere in the world, whereas LGBTQ people can face anywhere from death to discriminations in the workplace for their identity.
Such things acts of discrimination illegal in the United States and rightfully so.
I am not sure what to do about gay people being beaten up in the streets of Russia or "disappeared" in China. I would like to stop these things. I don't see how symbolic actions in the United States will help non-cis people in autocratic nations with systemic oppression abroad though.
I wouldn't want to trade my life with
anyone in Russia or China. Even members of the elites in these places have little personal freedom and have the proverbial Sword of Damocles hanging above their heads.
Likewise, I don't see how the abysmal way some women are treated in Third World countries means that women should have tax breaks in the United States.
I think it's rather pointless to have pride parades when you do not face discrimination or even legal consequences on a daily basis because of your sexuality.
I was once in a workplace where a hetero coworker got fired for asking out a female coworker but a LGBT routinely was able to (jokingly) proposition coworkers and get away it.
In media, LGBT people may not have the representation that straight people do in terms of numbers but it's almost always very flattering representation when they get it, at least as far as I can see. I haven't see anything like the infamous Gillette commercial directed against LGBT people. I hear about toxic masculinity
all the time, but you put a famous guy on a magazine cover in a dress. Celebrated.
I seen some horrific footage and testimony for how violently LGBT activists were treated in the 1960s through the 1980s and beyond. I even went to a speech given by Mathew Shepherd's mother.
I understand that hetero men are not being treated with half as bad as LGBT were treated historically but there is discrimination against hetero men and men in general a lot. It is subtle and mild but
everywhere.
Perhaps this is all off-topic, we were originally talking about entertainment media. I
need food, I
need water. I don't need to watch movies and TV shows. I don't mind media with representation, but I do want my media to have good stories. Most good stories have good lessons.
Not only is it a bad story, but it's a bad lesson when the representational character has no character arc, no weaknesses to overcome, no need for growth because showing the representational character as being a flawed human would reflect poorly on the group...somehow.
I want more hero's journeys. I don't really care what skin color they have or who they are sexually attracted to. I want to see 1990s Mulan succeed because of her grit, hard work, and determination. I don't want to see her succeed because she stopped hiding her true supernatural chi power because she finally decided to stop letting the patriarchy hold her down. (That's is also pretty much the same climax of
Captain Marvel, the evil men put a control chip in her to limit her awesomeness.)
Also I don't want Moulan to have her movie produced by collaborators with human traffickers and genocidal murderers.