I think that to hate someone or something, you have to give some of your attention and energy to the thing of your hatred. Sometimes you have to give a lot of your attention and energy to the object of your hatred. Much like love.
This part I agree with - take, for example, the differences between the sale of Jar Jar and Rose Star Wars figures. Despite Jar Jar being such a sadly loathed character, the occasional figure of him that's released usually sells well, in part because of the rarity of the occasions in which they are made, but also because so many fans effectively 'love to hate' him. Rose, on the other hand, was the star of the infamous 'peg-warming' debacle of the past two or three years, where scenes of her action figures languishing on shelves ages after they first came out, even the good quality Black Series versions, became a running joke among the Star Wars figure collector community. Indeed the trend could apply to Sequel trilogy figures in general, as there were still figures from the inaugural Farce Awakens line rotting on shelves about four to five years later, thus representing how the Sequels garnered nothing more than indifference after the initial wave of hate. People just got tired of it and ignored it as a pile of garbage.
And that's what we should do with all these dimwit SJWs. As infuriating as they may be, retaliating will only further the illusion (and their delusion) that their arguments are correct, that all white guys are supposedly just aggressive, violent thugs that have oppressed everyone else across history. Instead, by being indifferent we're showing them that their arguments are wrong and that we're not having any of their nonsense. What's more, if more indifferent people avoid paying to support their trashy media, it will crash and burn, as we've already seen many times.
For couples in love, never arguing can be as dangerous as constantly arguing. When your SO stops annoying you with their little idiosyncrasies is when you stop caring.
However I disagree here, not arguing with your partner could easily be simply that you love each other so much that you've come to accept and be patient with the other's idiosyncrasies, while large amounts of arguing is always unhealthy (which is why I still maintain the Han-Leia romance is laughable idealistic trash). Love between people works differently to other aspects of life. Contrary to all of this fanfiction generated by films and stories, like attracts like, and on the rare occasions opposites attract, they attack not long afterwards.
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